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Leadership BooksThe Pastor's Soul Volume 1: The Power of Loving Your Church

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Love Hurts


THE NEW TESTAMENT LOVE-WORD agape has been so sanitized and compromised that we now have a word for love that we like. Of all the words for love studied so far, agape is the one word for love we shouldn't like. The other loves are different; we're supposed to like them.

The beautiful word hesed is the beautiful love: steadfast love. The gentle word racham is the gentle love: compassion. The delicious word philos has a great sandwich named after it: the philly cheese steak. These are all good loves. We can burn out showing all of them. But in their proper place and with the proper balance, these loves are supremely, satisfyingly human. They are also wonderfully divine.

But agape is a pain in the neck. Agape is brutal love.

Why else would the Greeks eschew this word? Was it because they knew what it really meant?

Yes, of course, because they knew chat agape is the love-word for absolute, unself-centered, brutal sacrifice. Its central meaning for the New Testament derives from Jesus' death on the cross: "For God so loved (agapao) the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life" (John 3:16). This is about God sacrificing his Son. Steadfast love, compassion, and delight are all part of God's love for us, and they are all part of the sacrifice. But the sacrifice is agape. Jesus liked the sinners he spent time with; steadfast love was his only way of thinking; compassion for him was like breathing. But in his act of agape, his tone changed, and so did the tone of his disciples.

Then he began to teach them that the Son of Man must undergo great suffering, and be rejected by the elders, the chief priests, and the scribes, and be killed, and after three days rise again. ...


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