When Your Child Does Drugs
A Leadership Forum
July 1, 1999
The news is devastating—your child is on drugs.
Your emotions ricochet. You'll do anything to save your child, but you can't stand what he's doing to the rest of the family. You pray for a miracle, but you've heard of other families where the anguish lasted for years.
You fear for your child. You fear for your marriage. And if that weren't enough, you fear for your job—you're in the ministry.
Leadership gathered three pastors and a pastor's spouse to learn from their experience. We appreciate their candor and their courage.
Norma Bourland lives in Minnesota with her husband, Gene, who has pastored First Evangelical Free Church of Minneapolis for five years. They have four children. Norma works part-time as a child advocate network coordinator.
In 1984 their son, Stephen, a high school freshman, began using marijuana and alcohol. Soon he ventured into other drugs, including cocaine and crack. Stephen barely graduated from high school. After several failed attempts at further education and work, he left home. Norma and Gene heard nothing from him for more than two years.
Finally Stephen contacted his parents with the news that his girlfriend was pregnant. Stephen spent time in prison and continued to struggle with his habit. He now lives in Virginia with his girlfriend and child. For the last two years he has been sober.
Kimball Hodge is senior pastor of First Baptist Church of Eugene, Oregon, where he has served for more than eight years. He and his wife, Lynda, have two children and two grandchildren.
In 1988 their second son, Evan, a sixth grader, began smoking marijuana. For the next nine years Kimball and Lynda tried in vain to persuade him to stop.
Evan married without their approval in 1995. Two years later his wife ...
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