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LeadershipWinter 1988

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CONSEQUENCES OF A MORAL TUMBLE



Whenever I feel particularly vulnerable to sexual temptation, I find it helpful to review what effects my action could have:

* Grieving the Lord who redeemed me.

* Dragging his sacred name into the mud.

* One day having to look Jesus, the Righteous Judge, in the face and give an account of my actions.

* Following in the footsteps of these people whose immorality forfeited their ministries and caused me to shudder: (list names)

* Inflicting untold hurt on Nanci, my best friend and loyal wife.

* Losing Nanci's respect and trust.

* Hurting my beloved daughters, Karina and Angie.

* Destroying my example and credibility with my children, and nullifying both present and future efforts to teach them to obey God ("Why listen to a man who betrayed Mom and us?").

* If my blindness should continue or my wife be unable to forgive, perhaps losing my wife and my children forever.

* Causing shame to my family ("Why isn't Daddy a pastor anymore?").

* Losing self-respect.

* Creating a form of guilt awfully hard to shake. Even though God would forgive me, would I forgive myself?

* Forming memories and flashbacks that could plague future intimacy with my wife.

* Wasting years of ministry training and experience for a long time, maybe permanently.

* Forfeiting the effects of years of witnessing to my father and reinforcing his distrust for ministers that has only begun to soften by my example but that would harden, perhaps permanently, because of my immorality.

* Undermining the faithful example and hard work of other Christians in our community.

* Bringing great pleasure to Satan, the enemy of God and all that is good.

* Heaping judgment and endless difficulty on the person with whom I committed adultery.

* Possibly bearing the physical consequences of such ...



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