Recognizing Abused Children
July 1, 2002
Sam was missing again. The cheerful boy Betty taught in Sunday school and led in scouting had missed several Sundays lately. She thought about Sam's behavior in the last few children's activities he attended. Normally the 10 year old was active and excited, but Sam had begun to withdraw and grow quiet. Betty decided to visit Sam's home, just to let the family know that Sam had been missed. When Sam's father answered the door, he was curt, defensive, and refused to open the door more than a crack. Betty could look in just enough to see Sam's frightened eyes peering at her from around the corner. Betty didn't know whether Sam was being abused. She only saw things that concerned her and cared enough to look into it. She called me, the abuse advisor for my denomination. We discussed Sam's situation and decided it was best that she contact the authorities. What should concern me?
There is no perfect profile for identifying a sexually abused child. Some become withdrawn, while others act out aggressively. Sexual abuse should not be diagnosed except by trained investigators. But there are warning signs that warrant a church leader's further attention. Betty noticed a change in Sam's behavior. Major mood swings indicate something is wrong in a child's life. Perhaps it's only brief anxiety or childhood fears, or it may indicate something worse. Other warning signs: - Aversion to touch, or the opposite, age-inappropriate, overtly sexual behaviors.
- Self-loathing, often seen in an apologetic mood or in rages against others.
- Fear or dislike of bathrooms or closets, the places where sexual abuse often occurs.
- Age-inappropriate knowledge on sexual topics, which sometimes indicates exposure to pornography.
- In later years, depression and suicidal tendencies. Abused teens are 10 times as likely as other teens to commit suicide, and 4 times as likely to suffer mental health problems.
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