IDEAS THAT WORK
April 1, 1992
Planning the Funeral
Usually two problems arise in planning funerals. First, bereaved families know little or nothing about the desires of the deceased concerning the funeral. Second, the minister seldom has sufficient information about the deceased to write an inclusive life summary and eulogy.
Robert Watkins, pastor of First Cumberland Presbyterian Church, Oak Ridge, Tennessee, has developed two different forms for gathering this kind of information. One form is distributed to the congregation and allows them the opportunity to plan their own funeral. The other questionnaire collects information for a relevant funeral sermon.
Although some people refuse to think about their finite nature or preplanning their own funeral, Watkins believes it essential for the church to provide that opportunity. He does this in two ways.
A preplanning form, with an explanatory article, is included periodically in the church newsletter. Sometimes he mails a pastoral concern letter that includes a questionnaire for funeral planning. In either case, individuals are urged to complete a preplanning form, share a copy with several family members, and leave a copy on file in the church office.
The planning form asks people to state their preferences on such matters as
-Name of funeral home.
-Person or persons to be notified upon death.
-Where the body should lie in state.
-Whether the casket should be open or closed.
-The location of the funeral service (church, funeral home, or other).
-Name of preferred clergyman.
-Suggested Scripture and hymns.
-Suggested musicians.
-Designation of memorial gifts.
Immediately upon hearing of a death, Watkins checks church files for a completed funeral planning form. If it is on file, he sends a copy to the next of kin. Most ...
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