Sexual Dilemmas Summer 1995

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Hey, Pastor, is it okay if I invite a lesbian to church?"

I had been at the church for only four months. I didn't hesitate: "Of course it is. Jesus didn't come for the well but for the sick."

 The young man who had asked the question hesitated for a minute, then asked, "Really, or are you foolin' with my mind?"

I told him I didn't think Jesus would have hindered a first-century homosexual from investigating his claims by following him around. Little did I know what that comment would release in our church.

The young woman was unable to make it that evening but showed up two weeks later. After the service, she came up and told me that she had just given her heart to the Lord and wondered if it would be all right to "hang around and find out what to do from here." I assured her that she was welcome and that I was available if she had questions.

Two days later Molly called asking if we could talk. When she came in, she seemed cautious but expressed a love for Jesus and a desire to grow in her faith. Then she cut to the chase. "Before I get my heart all set on falling in love with this place and these incredible people, answer me this: Do you allow gays here?"

I wasn't ready for that question. I had been raised in a tradition where the "don't do's" far outnumbered the "can do's."

"I guess that all depends on what your motive for attending is," I finally said. "If you desire to learn more about a loving God and his ways, and are willing to let God have control of your life, you're welcome to stay."

...

She promised me it was.

Molly and I had many heart-to-hearts in the months and years to follow. The topics would change but never failed to challenge me with their scope and depth. One thing became ...

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